life

How to get anything done

Each year, when I look back on what I have accomplished, I tend to become my own worst enemy. By reducing the value of what I did. By minimising the work and effort my projects took. By playing small. Since I know this tendency well (it hits me once every so often), I know how to fight it. I usually write down a DONE LIST of all the things I have accomplished - even the little ones like writing 52 blog posts each year (see how I added the word 'little' to that accomplishment?! Seriously!) So I [...]

2020-01-21T09:27:39+02:00January 24th, 2020|

On simplifying life into black and white

I was glad when 2018 was over. I'd had quite a few curve balls thrown at me and a lot of ups and downs, which left me tired and reeling. Now that we reach the end of 2019, I am not sure I had a more balanced or positive year... And that got me thinking. About how we humans like to categorise things into black and white, good or bad, happy or sad. And it made me think about F. Scott Fitzgerald's quote: The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at t [...]

2019-12-23T10:19:22+02:00December 27th, 2019|

How to ease back into life after summer

After summer, whether you have been away on holidays or not, something changes.You need to get back to work. Kids to back to school. It’s getting chilly in the morning so you need to turn the heating on. Days are getting shorter and it’s dark when you get up in the morning. So you may feel a bit blue. Yearn for the beach, the barbecue evenings int the garden, the days of not wearing a watch, weeks without checking your emails. Here are a few tips on how to ease back into your life after summ [...]

2019-09-17T09:48:51+02:00September 27th, 2019|

Life 101 (…or There’s a blog post for everything)

Most of my blog posts started out as discussions with my friends, struggles my clients are facing or things I have liked and learned myself and feel the need to share. The other day, I had such a discussion with a friend about a struggle. And I thought: 'I will write a blog post about that'. And then I thought: 'Wait, I already HAVE a blog post about that!' Funny that. So today I thought I'd share some past posts with you just in case you find yourself in a certain situation. Enjoy! You feel stu [...]

2019-08-27T08:50:13+02:00September 6th, 2019|

Looking for work-life balance?

Work-life balance. It's the thing we all seem to strive for nowadays. Our work takes many hours of our day. We are so busy with meetings, calls, demanding bosses that when we come home we have used up many of our energy points. But then the other life starts: there are kids to pick up from or drive to places, groceries to buy, meals to cook, doctors to see, gardens to mow, partners and family to please, activities to attend... There is hardly any time left to breathe, let along energy to do any [...]

2019-12-20T11:55:39+02:00October 5th, 2018|

Take the power to make your life happy.

This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy. -- Susan Polis Schutz   Flashback to winter 10 years ago. 10 o'clock in the morning. Loïc, my 2 and half year old son and I are having tea and a cookie. Baby Rohan is asleep [...]

2018-11-22T19:14:50+02:00August 31st, 2018|
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