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Do you have a tribe?

On my vision board for 2018 there was a big word: TRIBE. A tribe is viewed, historically or developmentally, as a social group existing before the development of, or outside of, states. Many people used the term "tribal society" to refer to societies organized largely on the basis of social, especially familial, descent groups (see clan and kinship). A customary tribe in these terms is a face-to-face community, relatively bound by kinship relations, reciprocal exchange, and strong ties to place. [...]

2018-11-27T14:48:51+00:00November 30th, 2018|

On bending a spoon

I may have told you before that I was in London recently, attending a workshop by the famous Elizabeth Gilbert (she wrote Eat, Pray, Love). And after that workshop I flew on to Dallas to meet my wonderful friend Laura, who I knew had attended on of Elizabeth Gilbert's workshops, this one however with the equally famous Martha Beck. So Laura told me that Martha made the whole room bend spoons. And I was like: what??? So Laura showed me. And I tried. And I couldn't. And I sat with it. And the next [...]

2018-11-22T19:05:18+00:00July 13th, 2018|

Am I in love?

There's a book I have been reading on and off lately. It's called The Book of She - Your Heroine's Journey into the Heart of Feminine Power I have a kind of love/hate relationship with this book. Similar to back in the days when I read the book 'Women Who Run with Wolves' People were raving about it, suggested I read it. I did, or let's say I tried. But didn't really 'get it'. Much of this She-book is in line with what I coach my clients on. Some of it is a bit too 'spiritual', too 'feminine' to [...]

2018-11-22T19:19:05+00:00May 18th, 2018|

‘T is the season to be merry – really?

Do you have Christmas or holiday traditions? Do you like them? The reason I'm asking is that I meet a lot of women who seem to be stressed by this whole month of preparing for something they then do not really enjoy. I hear a lot of: I haven't even started buying presents yet (overwhelm). My entire family is coming over and I have to cook (total panic). I need a vacation but if we leave for the holidays my family will be upset (guilt). I don't really want to go to my in-laws for Christmas (unhap [...]

2018-12-03T15:30:05+00:00December 15th, 2017|

The powerful circle of a happy life

The other day I had an epiphany! I had the striking realisation that I am at the right place at the right moment, that what I do makes sense and has a purpose and that I am blessed with a wonderful circle of people supporting me in my journey. A few things contributed to that moment. The physical thing. I had an amazing Reiki session with my dear friend and spiritual sister, who always makes my body talk so that I can understand and puts all the wheels and cogs turning in the right direction aga [...]

2018-12-03T15:47:18+00:00October 27th, 2017|

How to be sexy and why it’s good for you

I don't know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot. -- Marilyn Monroe   During my pregnancies I did not feel sexy, although my then husband kept telling me I was. After having my boys, I felt the opposite of sexy. My body had changed, I didn't recognize it anymore and I felt like a walking milk machine. I only wanted to wear comfortable clothes and shoes because I had to pop a boob out on command, run after a toddler constantly, pick up toys, food and clothes all the time and [...]

2018-12-03T15:51:02+00:00September 29th, 2017|
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